Dating and the internet

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Dating and the internet

Home / Relationship Problems / How Technology is Changing Dating. Before the influx of online dating, meeting partners was pretty much resigned to work. Aug 15,  · What the data actually say about what online dating is doing to us. OkCupid is the best dating site on Earth, with apps for iOS and Android. Start meeting people today! Dating and the internet

The adoption of technology has changed the way we connect and converse with others in our society and dating is no exception. How did your parents meet? Mine met on a double blind date in which my mother and father had mutual friends who introduced them. With the invention of social media it is difficult to imagine anyone going on a blind date again—why would they need to? We not only have a wealth of information on pretty much everyone only a click away but how and where we meet future partners is changing.

Before the influx of online dating, meeting partners was pretty much resigned to work, through friends or out on a Saturday night. As a youth, I would look forward to the weekend just so I could meet a new batch of ladies to attempt to woo.

With the arrival of dating apps there has been a change in how many of us are finding our partners and indeed what we are looking for. I was watching this video in which a cross section of people, were asked to use Tinder to find people they would go on a date with.

There is no fear of failure because for every one or two rejections you get one or two matches. This is a game that you can keep playing until you win. However, this can lead you to feel as if potential partners are expendable. As you know that there are more people out there who you might be a match with.

Why limit yourself to one match when you can have 10? Or why settle for one partner when you have access to plenty? Every time we get a notification we get a little buzz of excitement. Just think how integral these random notifications are when online dating, a new message, another match, someone you want to talk to coming online. And remember it is not just one person we are talking to now but we can speak to s of potential partners.

So, I would argue, we are not only getting validation from the attention from potential partners, but the game aspect can actually make us addicted to this type of dating through the random notifications, which spike our dopamine. With those criteria, the Internet is a clear winner. Until someone mentions the old adage…you get what you pay for. Meeting someone used to be a unique experience in itself. It seems now that has been lost in favour of choice, time and convenience. Technology has made our world faster passed and people want to spend as little time as possible looking for someone.

They want dating to work around their lives in a time efficient way. It seems then that internet dating gives the whole notion of dating and love a dehumanising state. The game and time-saving efficient nature of online dating has become more important than actually finding a partner. Read more about How Technology is Changing Your Relationship here.

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